We have learned to believe that the fault is out there, the cause of my suffering is outside of myself.
What really causes our suffering is the attitudes we have, the old beliefs and thought patterns, the stories we tell ourselves, the interpretations we put on things.
Proof of this is found in how people have changed around very difficult life experiences through a change of attitude.
When we understand that our own attitudes are the cause of our suffering, then we begin to realise the power in us to change our experience.
We are no longer the victims of circumstances but the potential masters of our future.